Multiple problems with contact form

Here is my website redpinewebdesign.com

Here is my code:

/*-------------------------------------------------
	Receiver's Email
---------------------------------------------------*/

$toemails = array();

$toemails[] = array(
   'email' => 'brendan@redpinewebdesign.com', // Your Email Address
   'name' => 'Brendan' // Your Name
);

/*-------------------------------------------------
	Sender's Email
---------------------------------------------------*/

$fromemail = array(
	'email' => 'brendan@redpinewebdesign.com', // Company's Email Address (preferably currently used Domain Name)
	'name' => 'Red Pine Web Design' // Company Name
);

/*-------------------------------------------------
	reCaptcha
---------------------------------------------------*/

// Add this only if you use reCaptcha with your Contact Forms
$recaptcha_secret = 'I did put my secret here'; // Your reCaptcha Secret

And:

Problems!

The email doesn't send. It "says We have successfully received your Message and will get Back to you as soon as possible." I checked my email inbox and nothing comes up!

If I change the SMTP, it gives this error:
Email could not be sent due to some Unexpected Error. Please Try Again later.
SMTP connect() failed. https://github.com/PHPMailer/PHPMailer/wiki/Troubleshooting

Here is the SMTP code I'm using:

/* Add your SMTP Codes after this Line */
$mail->IsSMTP();
$mail->Host = "redpinewebdesign.com";
$mail->SMTPDebug = 0;
$mail->SMTPAuth = true;
$mail->SMTPSecure = "ssl";
$mail->Port = 26;
$mail->Username = "brendan@redpinewebdesign.com";
$mail->Password = "my email password went here";

// End of SMTP

Fixed! I contacted my host and they said the email router was not set properly.